Discord is where the volume is. Millions of lonely men congregating in dating servers, depression support channels, and gaming communities. This is your hunting ground.
The list below categorizes server types by ROI potential. If you want the actual curated list with invite links, server health ratings, and optimal approach strategies—that's in the Protocol.
Get the Full Server ListNot all Discord servers are equal. Some are goldmines. Most are wastelands. Here's what separates them:
Members are actively seeking romantic connections. They're emotionally available, primed for attention, and already comfortable with the idea of pursuing someone online. Average conversion rate sits around 15-25% with proper scripts.
Communities built around r/lonely, depression support, and social anxiety. These users are desperate for human connection. They form attachments faster, pay for ongoing attention, and rarely question authenticity. Handle accordingly.
Large servers (100k+ members) have significant populations of men who've never received female attention. Target the "looking for duo" channels and late-night voice chats. Valorant, League, and Minecraft communities work best.
Users here are pre-qualified. They understand the transaction. Competition is higher but so is buyer intent. These aren't people you need to convince—they're people you need to outcompete.
| Server Type | Target Density | Avg. Payout | Competition |
|---|---|---|---|
| Dating Servers | Highest | $20-50 | Medium |
| Lonely/Mental Health | High | $50-200 | Low |
| Gaming Servers | Medium | $10-30 | High |
| E-girl Servers | High | $30-100 | Very High |
Public directories are your starting point. Disboard, Discord.me, and Top.gg all have searchable databases. Keywords that work: dating, lonely, egirl, 18+, social, relationship.
Join servers with 1,000+ members and visible activity in the last hour. Dead servers waste time. The Protocol includes a curated, health-rated list updated weekly—saves you the sorting.
Start with 5-10 active servers. Quality over quantity. One high-engagement server with real users beats fifty dead ones with bot-inflated member counts.
If you're obvious, yes. The key is building genuine-seeming connections. Our scripts and approach strategies are designed specifically to avoid detection patterns.